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                                       You will never see or hear that your wife is driving down a well know prostitution street looking for a guy to take back to a cheap motel to get laid or sit in her car while a guy has oral sex with her.  Your wife needs to be wined and dined and then some even maybe a flower or two from time to time. If you don’t get the truth, regardless if it is good news or bad news, your relationship will eventually break up over the constant accusing her of cheating.  Once you start blaming your wife that she is cheating, her antennas will go up and she will began thinking that you are cheating on her and that you are just turning it around on her to take the focus off of you. This is where the constant fighting begins and it makes a perfect excuse for your wife to start having an affair. It also makes it very easy for your wife to have an affair because any man that she meets is going to be nicer to her then you have been and that is what women like is a nice guy.  Women want to be treated with respect and put first in every situation and if you are doing those few little things for her then usually everything else doesn’t matter as much. Woman want to feel loved and special and they will find it sooner than later if you are not going to give it to her.  Of course it is common sense that if you abuse a woman verbally or mentally for a period of time, you will lose her to someone who won’t.     

If you think I am putting all the blame on you men, that isn't the case at all. Women cheat just as much as men do but I am trying to save you from a big heartache in the end when she leaves you for another man. One thing a man has to understand and this is coming from a woman. Let's just say for the majority of us woman that we do what we have to do at the beginning of a relationship but then real life sets in and things change. I hate to say it, but a lot of women get pregnant thinking this will keep you from leaving her. Sad but true, in my nineteen years of doing infidelity investigation work, I have heard the story one too many times on how having a child has destroyed the relationship. Having a child for the wrong reason only puts a strain on the relationship and then your wife will be out looking for someone to be a better husband and father for her family.

Let Mate Check find out the truth and you will know once and for all what she is doing when she is away from you. With Mate Check on your case, you will no longer need to blame her that she is cheating on you. That means all the fighting and accusing her of cheating is gone while you peacefully wait for Mate Check to give you the evidence if she is cheating or not. Once you have the concrete evidence on video or pictures in hand, it will be up to you if you want to stay and try and work on your relationship or if you decide to go your own way. I would recommend seeing a counselor if you decided to work out you relationship with your wife because since you have the evidence in hand, there will be no way out for your wife with the counselor because your wife won't be able to say that your wrong and she won't be able to get out of admitting that she had or is having an affair. Having the concrete evidence in hand when seeing a counselor makes it so the counselor can work on the issues at hand instead of you spending your time and money with "He" said "She" said.

You may find out that your wife is a lesbian and is cheating with another woman and that is the reason why you knew something was going on but you just couldn't put you're your finger on it. If you find out that your wife is a lesbian, don't blame yourself or think that you are incompetent. It is not your wife's fault either. It is the world we live in that makes woman feel like they can't be themselves and live a gay life so they try to make their family, friends and co-workers happy instead of themselves. If you have had a long term relationship with your wife or you two have children together, I wouldn't be so quick to judge her and throw her aside because she is gay. It was not her decision to be gay, she was born that way but tried to be accepted. Since your wife wasn't with another man and she can't help her sexual orientation, if you handle the situation well, she could turn out to be a good friend. Remember, you loved her when you didn't know she was a lesbian so you can still be great friends and don't forget that they always have good looking straight friends as well.

Regardless of the situation there are many ways to catch your cheating wife. You can monitor her every move on her computer and cell phone activity. You can get her deleted text messages off of her phone that she thought you would never find. A GPS tracking device allows you to always know where she is and since it works with Google Maps, you will know if it is a house, apartment, hotel or where she is at all times. Using a GPS tracker is also effective if you have employed a private investigator to conduct video surveillance. The investigator does not have to be right on her and can follow her from a comfortable distance arriving at the right moment to catch the activity. The use of undercover covert decoys can also be useful to find out if your wife would cheat if given the opportunity. Please call Mate Check or read the rest of the website to see all of Mate Check's products and services to determine which service or product would be best for your personal situation