Since I couldn’t find an investigator who offered that type of service, I had to do it on my own the old fashion way. I did catch my then hubby cheating on me with my daughter’s, best friends, and mother. Right after our divorce, the two were married and seven years later, the other woman was arrested for domestic violence against the man who thought the grass was greener on the other side. Then they were divorced and to date, both of them are alone and lonely.
My name is Sandra Hope and I am the owner of Mate Check Private Investigations and the creator of the "Covert Decoy" service. I open my doors in 1994 with my creation of the "Covert Decoy" service which has become one of the most popular used devices in private investigations today. The "Covert Decoy" gives you that opportunity that you would otherwise never know because there is no other way you can find out how your significant other is feeling about your relationship or if they are planning on leaving you when they find someone else. None of that information is written down anywhere for anyone to retrieve except for a "Covert Decoy".
A "Covert Decoy" service can find out information, feelings, future plans, hidden cell phones, hidden houses and so much more. A "Covert Decoy" is a male or female wired with video and sound and makes an accidental meeting take place. The "Decoy" would have inside information from their significant other on all of their likes and dislikes. Then the "Decoy" would make a real life chance bumping into the subject and start a normal conversation with the information the "Decoy" gathered from the client. The information gathered makes it easier for the "Decoy" to make the perfect match if he or she was going to cheat if given the opportunity.
Using the "Covert Decoy" service makes your decision a lot easier if you want to go on with your life or go get counseling and try to work out the relationship. There is no more "He" said "She" said because it is all documented on audio and video which makes the process a lot less stressful not to mention the cost of counseling when you have to pay for he or she just to say, "No I didn't" and "you're crazy". We have all heard these statements made to us before but had to take it all in because we didn't have the concrete proof that we can get today with the "Covert Decoy" service.
If you decide to work it out, you don't have the unforgettable, heart breaking news that your significant other had sex with someone else. Your significant other thought it was a real situation but it was paid for and controlled by you so therefore, sex with another person isn't an issue. Since there wasn't any sex involved and they never got the chance to cross the line that makes all the difference in the world when you are trying to work on a relationship. Now you know he or she is looking and would take the opportunity if it came available, so now you can just work on the issues at hand. For the man it could be as simple as, you don't wear makeup anymore. For the woman, it could be as simple as he doesn't pay enough attention to me like when we first meet or one of the main reasons are blame the children. Usually, the reasons people cheat are over something that could be easily remedied and in reality, small things. In a relationship when feelings are involved, small things to most are big things to the people in the relationship. Communication with honesty is the key and that is what a "Covert Decoy" can bring out of a person.
I created the "Covert Decoy" for infidelity matters due to my own situation with my hubby but it became so popular in the investigation world, that it is used for all types of investigation including sexual harassment in the work place and more. If Hillary Clinton and Sandra Bullock, just to name a few, hired a "Covert Decoy" from Mate Check, they could have kept their personal relationships out of the media. A "Covert Decoy" service is just that, a chameleon. "Decoys" can look and become anything you think your significant other would be attractive too and be put anywhere were inside information is needed. Since the "Decoy" already knows so much about your significant other, she or he becomes the perfect storm.
You can read about how each of the "covert decoy" service works that fits your personal situation. Mate Check, LLC has a very strict confidential policy and nobody will know that you hired a "Covert Decoy" except for you.
Is "She" all they claim to be?
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CORPORATE & WORK "COVERT DECOY" SERVICE
Besides the internet, the number one place to have an affair is the work place. I have been doing infidelity work for nineteen years and most of my cases start at the work place. It will start at the work place when they don't come home after work because they have to "work late". It will happen at lunch time but they won't be eating lunch at the nearby sub shop and it won't stop there because they had to work late. You will also get an unbelievable excuse for why they didn't answer their cell phone or work phone when you tried to call them and they didn't answer their phone. Usually it is because it was on vibrate and they didn't hear it or they left it somewhere.
The reason why so many affairs start in the work place is because they spend more time at work then at home awake. When they go to work they are showered, shaved, well dressed, short skirts, high heels, make-up and on their best behavior. When they come home, nice clothes off, high heels off, make-up off, suit off and the best behavior is left at their desk and with the co-worker they are seeing. The work place becomes family orientated because you work with your peers every day and on some jobs, co-workers depend on you for one reason or another. Then there is lunch. Most people don't sit alone everyday by themselves when you can be with one of your co-workers and discuss work or other problems that are going on in your personal life. Now your significant other just made that co-worker a part of your personal life. The co-worker that your significant other just confided in thinks that they are more than a co-worker and tries to help you solve the personal problems that you are having at home.
Usually this means that your co-worker is going to be extra nice to you and try and console you when you look depressed and feed off of the fact that you need a should to cry on. It begins with a look, then a pat on the back, then lunch, then notes, then calling you to make sure you're okay even when you're at home with your significant other. Then at some point in time, talking and lunch becomes the affair. It is just that simple and just that quick and it happens at every job, every day. If you don't believe what I am saying is true, let me remind you that an affair even happened in the White House. If it happens in the White House, it can happen to anyone, anywhere.
Mate Check's Corporate & work 'Covert Decoys" are the answer. If you don't have a Mate Check "Covert Decoy" on your side you will never find out until your significant other is packing their bags or you're at the doctor's office getting medicine for a venereal disease. Extreme, yes, but it happens every day and I have heard the cries and heartaches of many clients telling me their story which is the same story I just heard five minutes ago.
Mate Check has a very strict confidential policy and nobody will know you hired a "Covert Decoy" except for you.
You don't have to believe your significant other and take the lies that are thrown at you, call Mate Check and find out, Is"He" or "She" are all they claim to be?
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ONLINE "COVERT DECOY"
The internet is a cheaters dream. Anyone at any time can start a relationship online or even have sex over the internet with the great invention of the webcam. If you want to cheat, the internet has made it so easy you can be anywhere at any time and chat with your newly found person of interest or even an old friend or classmate. On the internet you can be anyone you want to be and start a relationship with a click on the keyboard, cell phone or I Pad. Not everyone who goes on the internet in chat rooms or porn sites have the intention of meeting someone and starting an affair but with my nineteen years of experience, I can tell you with certainty that even though you didn't have the intension of cheating when you logon to the internet, it is going to happen eventually. If you talk to someone who uses the chat rooms or porn internet sites, he or she will say it is just for fun and that they are not doing anything wrong. I have a slew of clients that will tell you that their heart was broken into pieces because their significant other was surfing the web for someone else. No matter what you say, IT IS CHEATING!
Those who do use the internet for chatting and porn sites are on them for one reason and that is to flirt and see what is out there. Most of them are hoping that one day they will find someone to have an affair with especially since there are so many social websites and a lot of them have options that if you are in a relationship you can have a secret affair with no questions asked. The internet is a perfect device for a cheater or a potential cheater which you will become one the first time you enter into the world of social websites. It is not just a onetime thing or just wanted to see what it is all about, social websites are very addicting because you can find exactly what you are looking for anytime of the day or night and even on your cell phone or other devices.
Cheating on the internet is so easy, your significant other can be cheating right beside you on the couch watching television or they wait until you fall asleep and off they go to their computers. If you have to tip toe out of bed while your significant other is sleeping to go on to a porn website in the middle of the night so some stranger can see your body parts and you can see their body parts and chat together, THAT IS CHEATING!!! Cheaters have the perfect out if they get caught by you. They couldn't sleep and decided to catch up on some work or they forgot about a document that was due for work in the morning. There are so many excuses and since they don't have to leave the house, it makes it very hard to catch them in the act because when you come walking around the corner, off goes the computer followed by the delete button.
I had a situation where the husband brought his computer to bed with him so he could look up his significant others systems to see what she should take for her illness. What a nice husband one would think until he went to put it away in his home office where he stayed awhile. While the wife laid in bed sick, the husband was in the home office chatting online and looking up his big boob porn site and the wife had no idea. When the husband returned back to the bedroom he just got away with cheating. This is where men and women disagree if chatting online and looking on the internet at nude and sexual porn sites is cheating. Men say that there is nothing wrong with it and it is not cheating. Women say that it is wrong and that it is cheating. Who is right?
This is one question that doesn't have one answer and it has to be left up to each individual relationship. I can tell you that the one who thinks that it is not cheating will certainly change their mind if it happens to them. I will give you the statistics from a private investigator who has been doing infidelity work for nineteen years. If you have the thought process to look at other people having sex or if you have to turn on your webcam and have sex with them over the internet, you are cheating. Cheating comes in more ways than one. If you are having sex with another person regardless if it is over the internet or in person, you are having an affair. Instead of spending time looking for other people to have sexual encounters with on the internet, you could be spending time with your significant other. If you are going to use the excuses that you couldn't sleep so you had to have sex with another person over the internet. I hate to bust your bubble but there isn't any research that I am aware of that says cheating is a sleep aid. Your significant other is cheating, period.
Once you find someone that you are interested in on the internet, the affair will began in person sometime soon. First it is lets meet for coffee, then let's go out sometime, then more communications between the two, exchanging phone numbers, then unexpected trips out of town, unexpected trips in town and soon enough, you will find yourself a victim of your significant other in a full fledge affair. It all has to start somewhere. I, myself, would like to think that I am enough women for the person that I am with or my significant other should leave and find the person that satisfies him. That is just my point. Your significant other is looking for someone else that is why they are on those websites in the first place.
An "Internet Covert Decoy" will solve your problems and give you the answers that you are looking for. As anyone knows who has had this happen to them in their relationship, you usually cannot find the person that your significant other has been chatting with or having sex with over internet. An "Internet Covert Decoy" can fix that mystery. Call Mate Check and give them all of the information that you have on your significant other including their likes and dislikes. If you don't know all of their e-mail addresses or which e-mail address they use on the internet sites, Mate Check can find that information out for you as well. Then we have a decoy go on to the internet websites that your significant other is using and be the perfect midnight chat. Mate Check's decoys do not encounter in any sexual activity but we will ask all the questions you have always wanted to know what he/she would say when asked the questions that you gave to the decoy.
My advice on how you should handle this kind of situation. Do not try and search their computer to find the website that they were on, don't try and go through their phone, don't ask them if they are going on social websites, and don't accuse them of anything that I listed because it will just cause a huge fight and you will be the one who is left crying and brokenhearted and your significant other will then have an excuse to leave or go into another room to continue his online affair.
Instead, call Mate Check and hire an internet covert decoy to get your questions answered truthfully and have that concrete evidence that you have needed to know. Your significant other thinks that the decoy is the real deal so you will find out exactly what they say and do on the internet. There goes their lies and denial because you have the proof you need in your hands. Don't be fooled either if your significant other is guarded with their computer or cell phone or if they even go are far as guarding their Face book account. It could be a friend or a friend of one of your children that your significant other is chatting with or having internet sex with if these actions are present. It is ridicules if you are in a relationship and can't go on to your significant others Face book account. There is no excuse that could ever make sense except the truth which you will never get out of them. This means you need to call Mate Check immediately or get out of that immature relationship and find yourself someone who is interested in you and you only. If you don't have the concrete proof in your hands, be ready for the most unbelievable reasons and excesses that you have ever heard. I feel that if you love someone and they didn't completely cross the line, you should try and work out your relationship. On topics like Face book, hidden cell phones, guarded computers and other things that they hide from you along with their lies. I will have to leave that decision up to you but the only statics that I can share with you is nineteen years in the infidelity world hearing stories from every walk of life telling me with their broken heart how the hidden and guarded electronics devices, reunion their relationship. If you let electronics devices control your life and it reunions your relationship, you never had a relationship in the first place.
Mate Check, LLC has a very strict confidential policy and the only person that will know that you hired a "Covert Decoy" is you.Is "He" or "she" all they claim to be?
License # 1003408 & Bonded