• Working lots of overtime
• Excessive use of the Internet
• Additional mileage on the car
• Acting overly nice to you
• Hanging out with new friends
• Smells of perfume, cologne, or alcohol
• Hiding phone or cell-phone bill
• Using a pager
• No longer interested in sex
• No longer wearing a wedding ring
• Saying "I need space"
• Sudden increase in time away from home
• Often distracted and daydreaming
• Not returning phone calls in a timely fashion
• Asking about your schedule more than usual
• Getting his or her laundry done independently
• Using more Viagra
• Paying more attention to clothes and accessories
• More interested in trying new things sexually than before
• Less attentive
• Less interested in family issues
• Has more cash on hand than usual
• Has unexplained receipts or personal effects in wallet
• Has unexplained payments on bank statement
• Has gas credit card receipts from gas stations at uncommon locations
• Getting suspicious phone messages
• Making unusually long phone calls
• Visiting unusual sites on the Internet
• Getting uncommon e-mail messages
• Becomes nervous when watched when on the phone or computer
• Changes facial hair
• Changes hair style
• Has to stay late at work
• Talks on the phone outside or in a hidden place
• Turns off the phone
• Turns the phone up-side down so you can't see the screen
• Hang up phone calls
• Hides what they are doing on the computer when you enter the room.
• Jumps when you see them on their computer or phone.
• Has a password on everything they own.
• When you asked them a question they get on the defensive
• Starts fights with you so they have an excuse to leave the house
• New sexy bra's and underwear for females
• New underwear and clean underwear for males
• Girls night out
• Guys night out
• Has unrealistic stories why it took them so long to run an errands, i.e.; ran out of gas, drove further then had to, got lost, traffic, someone called and needed their help and my favorite, my phone died or I was out of the service area
• Going to strip clubs because they had to take a client out
• Didn't know that the people they were with were going to the strip club
• They twist the question that you asked them and put the blame on you
• Say their leaving if you don't stop nagging them over a small conversation or question
• Cuts you down and tells you that you're crazy
• Blames you that you are cheating
• Watches porn
• Has a profile on flirting sites or dating sites or both
• Won't let you use their computer or phone
• Stares at other woman
• Gets up in the middle of the night to go on the computer or to watch pron on TV.
