First of all when you cheat you are dealing with a persons deepest emotions, take a look at what infidelity, affairs, cheating and unfaithful behavior cause and effect of infidelity:

The Cheat Sheet of Infidelity

After working for more than a decade as a private investigator, I am forwarding you a must read, a few points that I would like you, every male and female, to ponder upon in order to understand and avoid liars, cheaters and individuals who cause infidelity in relationship and its long lasting consequences.

Every individual is emotional towards relationship that’s believed to be important. Cheating is an act which will surely affect every individual and his emotion, causing unrecoverable damages physically, mentally and monetarily. The effect of which is long lasting and painful.

I find that there are many cheaters, adulterers and people having affairs. Today, it is very commonly observed. As such I believe that there is a need to have a cheat sheet on infidelity.
So, here are things you need to think about before you cheat or become unfaithful by having an affair causing infidelity in your relationship.
 

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                                            Wife caught cheating above, play and see.

Note there are people who exaggerate and love gossiping in order to gain pleasure.

1. If any of your friends knows that you are cheating, he/she might leak the same to your own near and dear ones. This would undoubtedly cause problems at all levels.
There could be three reasons for this,

a.     She or he could be your real or true well wisher. So, your friend might do this in order to help you avoid unnecessary problems that would occur in near future. Or his/her intentions may be to make you realize the wrongful behavior that is causing and leading to infidelity OR
b.     This friend of yours could be of the nature or interested in snatching off your girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife, fiancée from you. OR
c.     She could be a person, who has been waiting to take revenge against any of your earlier wrongful action/s. As such she will cheat you in retaliation.

2. There are a number of people who know us but we might not know them personally. In this case, there are always chances of them, informing your near and dear, regarding your behaviour or your affair with another person as are frequently seen together in public places.

2.     Few nasty sleazy women carry STDs with them. They are dangerous and are ready to transmit sexual diseases which will cause damages for remaining period of life. A diamond may be forever, but sexually transmitted diseases will last you a lifetime. If you contract an STD sexually transmitted disease and you are screwed for life.

3.     The girls who hookup with you would surely try to bust you, for which, they would not hesitate to go to any extreme without your knowledge and if more, the number of times you go back to some, the degree of risk taken by you is extremely vast.

4.     Some girls with whom you hook up with might act to be cool but they would not even think for a second to communicate the affair to your girlfriend in order to make you their permanent customer.

5.     There are even few others who make false promises and consume pills, yet conceive. Once these girls find you interesting, they would do any of the following things to retrieve you on a permanent basis viz.

a.     Checking your phone for text messages,
b.     Suspect you when you receive call from any other female,
c.     Check on the strange numbers in your phone / mobile,
d.     Verify the ladies numbers that are fed in your phone,
e.     Make you spend for their lavish needs, a hike on your credit cards.

6.     If you live in an apartment, it is obvious that your neighbors are sure to notice whatever is happening in your flat. If you meet your girlfriends there, again the neighbors would start commenting on your character and that there are always possibilities that they talk to your girlfriends.

7.     One of the nastiest things that can happen is that, your photo is posted in one of the widely viewed funny websites like WomanSavers.com

8.     If your girlfriend starts realizing that you are trying to shift your attention on some another girl, then that would be the end of your happiness in life. Also trying to date two women costs three times as much.

9.     It could even be worse when the girlfriend who has realized that you are cheating her would start commenting or discussing about you to her friends, leading them to talk about and enjoy your personal details at your own cost.

10.     Your girlfriend might try very hard to forget about the affairs or relationship she had with you, but she will not and as a result, it will always end up in pain.

11.     Even if she would forget and forgive you, their family members will remember you all their lifetime for the trouble that they have faced because of your affair.

12.     If you would wish to finalize the issues with your girlfriend, from that moment, the relationship would exist, but with full suspect and insecurity for the rest of the life.

13.     If you love your girlfriend honestly and still have an affair with another girl, your conscience would surely prick you when you go to your girlfriend, whom you love the most and life would become miserable to lead.

14.     Dating and having affairs with more than one girlfriend would not only screw your happiness in the long run but also costs you a lot financially to manage the show.

15.     The risk of publicity, acknowledging your infidelity is huge.

16.     Few girls might express their willingness to affairs without any commitment, but this will not be true and will blast out one day. There is a high possibility that she might turn violent in her behavior towards you.

17.     Your girlfriend having had a crush with your close friend secretly will now start to befriend him. Ultimately you will end up losing both your close friend and your girlfriend.

18.     In General girls have a crazy habit of sharing their intimate details with their close friends. This widens your risk by all means. They may end up telling their friend that you cry when having sex.

19.     Girlfriends will try to seek support from your family and friends which will result in great losses in terms of relationship between you and your family.

20.     If you want to disclose to your girlfriend about what you did with another babe, she will be hurt and you can’t expect whatsoever you did with the babe has happened with your girlfriend. If you don’t disclose, she will be hurt worse. If you feel that you are smart in cheating, you have underestimated your girlfriend’s smartness.

21.     She becomes an attorney general who can interrogate you with questions and blast you into pieces. The smallest gap can be a biggest defense point for her. You think you are smart but you will really become stupid.

22.     If you are committed to someone, she can try to get a clean chit through a private investigator regarding you, for which, even audio visual proofs will be used.

23.     The support that you pay towards a child, if you share one, can be utilized for her new boyfriend’s fantasies too.

24.     She can hook up to any of your relatives or colleagues to let you feel the maximum pain. They will resent you not her.

 

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   Other things that she can do, when she comes to know that you are not loyal to her are,
   a.     Fantasize about her old boyfriends,
   b.     Put scratches on your car or a prized valuable
   c.     Destroy your things.
   d.     Contact your present girlfriend and try damaging your relationship to the maximum or
   e.     They may even make it public

    

   Tell Tale Signs of A
   Cheating Unfaithful Spouse
    

     Whether your mate is cheating, you can be understood from the following. Please do not confront them when you know the same as they come out with reasons and complicate the process further so you cannot find the same in future. In such cases take professional help.
   
   The person who is a cheater can have the following characteristics
   
   1.     The cheater will be more attentive in the starting times of the affair so that the spouse is not doubting

   
   2.     Then after sometime, they will start finding fault with the spouse so as to justify the affair.
    

   3.     There will be lack of concentration at home, no time will be spent with you or your children. There will be a lack of interest in the day to day or welfare activities of the home.
    

   4.     It is advised to believe your intuitions and check if you are in doubt, through professional help. So when in doubt, check it our
    

   5.     Changes in sex life are observed. There may be an interest for no sex or less sex or any unexplainable sexual requests.
    

   6.     You will observe a prominent change in attitude towards home and towards you and your relatives etc.
    

   7.     Another drastic change is seen in the monthly Finances. There is a tendency to spend money more than usual. So check the balances and statements from bank – In short be alert about undue and unknown expenditures
    

   8.     Change in grooming habits from hair style, to eye color, to perfumes to colognes – everything will change. Note the difference in the physical appearance and their increased interest and involvement in maintaining their looks and personality. So you can check for lipstick stains on collars, secretion stains on underwear.
    

   9.     You may want to even monitor your spouse for two weeks by keeping and tracking the time he leaves for work and the time he comes home. As such note the mileage on his car. If your mate claims to be working late, check paycheck stubs to verify this overtime.
    

   10.     Check the car for any receipts, or pieces of paper with contact numbers & details, check wallets and other personal handbags and shirt and trouser pockets etc.
    

   11.     Be alert when you receive telephone calls at home and your mate has a tendency to whisper or gives a quick answer or immediately hang up. Also if you answer the telephone you get an abrupt hang up. 
    

   12.     Many cheaters use cellular telephones to communicate with their lovers. Should your mate have a cellular telephone you may want to get a detailed billing of the calls made from his cellular phone to determine whether a certain number has been frequently dialed.
   
   •     When you find all these changes get professional help to keep a check on his habits and to find out about his other activities.
   •     Check his car mileage, check where all he goes, check his out and in timings to find out his routines etc...
   •     Monitor the incoming and the outgoing calls on the telephone,
   •     Change of perfume smell on the shirt or the clothing etc can also add value to your check.
   •     Get itemized billing details of his mobile phone. Check out the numbers he has first dialed when leaving for office and the repeat dial for the same number while he is returning home.
   
   a.     Female cheaters were less aggressive in the past. But with the increase in number of women in work force, they have become equally aggressive. But female cheaters are highly selective for the fear of STDs. As against men, women, today, prefer a long lasting relation and not a one night stand. A woman cheater is seen to have more ‘glow’ about her.
    

   b.     Male or Female, cheating leads to a lot of agony in their respective spouses mind and amidst their relatives too.
    

   c.     You are not viewed as a good friend and it leads others to suspect you constantly. No one will be with you when you really require them and everyone starts doubting you including your new girl/Boy friend.
    

   d.     There is a threat of diseases getting contracted by you which is more dangerous. It distracts you.
    

   e.     If any of your dear ones is suspected, take necessary action today.
   
   Please do not confront without conforming the details about which you suspect, because you may end up worsening the matter. So better get professional help to correct things at the earliest.

    

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