How to tell if your husband or boyfriend is Gay?
                                                (866) 640-1010
                                            matecheck@matecheckpi.com

Do you have a gut feeling that your husband or boyfriend is gay?

Not that there is anything wrong with being gay but you do have the right to know. If you suspect or have these feelings you must have the truth.

We are speaking about this subject because many of our clients have called us with regard to this issue. We have found that because of family and social pressures some gay men have chosen to conceal their sexual preference by marring a female or courting a female so friends, family members and business associates will not know. These gay men then live secret lives to fulfill their sexual desires. A lot of these relationships were born when it was not acceptable to have a gay relationship same as the times when it was not socially acceptable to be a certain color but times have changed. Even though times have changed some people have not. While it is very sad that a gay man cannot live his life without ridicule it is especially not fair to the innocent spouse or girlfriend who has engaged into this relationship honestly.
The statistics from the Centers for Disease Control, The CDC indicate that over four million women have had sexual relationships with men that have had sex with other men. That is a very alarming number.

Many of our clients after learning the truth have gone on to have very meaningful relationships with their gay spouse especially in relationships where children are involved.
The statistics of the Family Pride Coalition indicate that 20 percent of all Gay men in the United States are in heterosexual relationships and 50% of all Gay men in the United States have had children.

Pittsburgh Tribune Review

Our clients have had some of the following concerns:
He has all of these new guy friends that he does things with without inviting me.

He has become overly conscious about fashion and grooming when he has never cared before.

I had his computer checked and found many gay porn websites and guy finder web sites.

I looked through his phone and found sexually suggestive texts from his male friends and pictures.

When we have sex he insists on blow jobs and anal sex and he always has his eyes closed.

He fantasizes about you having a threesome with another guy.

Please be advised that these signs can be completely harmless and the only way to truly know is to hire a private investigator to investigate the situation. You should not accuse them until you have solid proof. This is a very sensitive issue and should be handled carefully. Some gay men have gone as far as committing suicide rather than having their spouse or family find out. So when considering investigating this situation you should hire a professional private investigator to help guide you. The point is not to hurt the person it is to help them.

Why do Gay spouses lie and stay in the closet?

They are devoted to you, their children, their parents, and their job. They become stuck between both words and become entrapped in it. They keep it a secret because they do not want to hurt anyone that they love or care about. They fell as if they will lose everything if they tell the truth. They feel as if no one will understand.

Even though it is now socially acceptable it depends on the way they were raised and if a gay lifestyle was acceptable in their household growing up.

What can you do if you believe that your husband or boyfriend might be gay?
There are several different ways we would recommend to find out of your spouse is gay.

Surveillance- is where we would have a private investigator covertly follow your spouse to monitor their behavior. You know the old saying you don’t truly know someone until you are a fly on the wall.

Computer Monitoring- We have forensic quality computer monitoring software that is completely undetectable that will send you daily email reports of all of their email activity. They may join social networks or sites that are more geared to gay men. They may send emails to their gay lover.
Cell Phone Monitoring- We have forensic software that will recover all of the deleted text messages, numbers dialed and deleted pictures from their phone. Remember anything they delete could potentially be something they do not want you to see. They may send explicit text messages or pictures to their gay lover.

GPS Tracking- This is a more cost effective way to conduct surveillance. It allows you to know where they are 24/7 and then send an investigator only when they are at a suspicious location. Like when you catch them in a lie. They may say they are at the gym but they are parked in a residential area. We sell the best most cost effective GPS unit available ask us about it.

Male Decoy- We can have one of Mate Check private Investigations male decoy’s that are trained to create a chance meeting whether online or in person to see if they would take an interest in the male decoy that we assign to the case. This could possibly be one of the best ways to find out. They will never know that you hired us but you will discretely learn the information.

Please don’t forget once you have the information confirming that your spouse or boyfriend is gay or bi-sexual please contact a good counselor that is sensitive to these issues so that there is no confrontation that would have a negative impact. Even if your suspicions are not confirmed you still need a good counselor to evaluate why your relationship is sending you theses signals.

If you just don’t know what to believe anymore, you still cannot live that way.
If you feel this way about your relationship something has to be going on to make you feel that way. You must do something for your own productivity. Having this on you mind without doing anything will take the toll on the relationship anyway.

If you think that your spouse is gay please call Mate Check Private Investigations today for a free confidential investigation.

 

 

Mate Check Private Investigations
Specializing in Domestic Relations Cases

+1 (480) 391.1010 / +1 (866) 640.1010
matecheck@matecheckpi.com
 License # 1003408

*Mate Check welcomes same sex and alternative lifestyle cases

All Inquiries held in the strictest Confidence

No Obligation Consultations     Call or Email Us Today