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Cheating Unfaithful Husband Causing Infidelity

If you suspect your husband, boyfriend, spouse, or fiancé is unfaithful, cheating, committing adultery causing infidelity in the relationship by having an affair you need to read on.

If your husband is having an affair it is likely to be one of the most hurtful things you can go through. The not knowing if your husband is being unfaithful is equally as painful. Even the idea that your husband is being unfaithful causes extreme anxiety. Each of the private investigators at Mate Check is here to assist clients like you with this issue, every day. We know that you need a private investigator to get you proof so that you can move forward with your life. Sandra Hope has specializes in domestic relations and matters of the heart including infidelity, divorce, child custody all of which can be the result of having an affair.  Your spouse could be addicted to porn or even worse child pornography.  These are serious issues and we resolve it on our Spouse and Child Porn page dedicated to this sensitive issue, a must see.

We all know that both women and men cheat but there are certain types of behavior that is shown by men primarily when faced with infidelity in a relationship.

Recent statistics show that men are more likely to engage in unfaithful activities for the sexual gratification only, than are women. Although not as a rule but, we do see more circumstances of men cheating on their wives solely for sexual gratification. These men will have sex with just about any willing female but they typically want them to leave faster than they came into their life. Women typically tend to have an emotional connection between them and the person they are cheating with, probably in hopes of furthering the relationship to a lasting one. A woman knows they can find a man for sex any time they want but on the other hand men have to typically seek it out and be the pursuer. Most cheating men do not get emotionally attached to their mistresses but women do get emotionally attached to the person they are having the affair with. Experts say women definitely fantasize but they know how to separate a fantasy from reality unlike men who have trouble separating fantasy from bringing it to reality.

Signs of a Cheating Husband and Infidelity in General

Statistics say that 85% of women who feel their lover is cheating are correct and 50% of men who feel their lover is cheating are right. If you have suspicious, consider some of the following and be as impartial as possible.

Have you noticed a:

  • Sudden increase in length of time from home
  • Loss of desire to have sex with you
  • Cheating husband always daydreaming or distracted
  • Cheating spouse not available while at work
  • Cheating spouse wants to attend functions alone
  • Cell phone calls from you when he is not home
  • Cheating husband makes cell calls or answers cell in other rooms or outside
  • Cheating husband uses computer secretly with his own password
  • Cheating husband wants to know your whereabouts all of the time
  • High mileage on the car that does not match schedule
  • Cheating Husband starts wearing cologne
  • Cheating Husband does his laundry separately
  • Bank statements showing unknown purchases or withdraws
  • Cheating husband carries a lot of cash with no reason why
  • Cell phone bills contain many calls to the same number that you don't know
  • Cheating husband uses a calling card
  • Cheating husband has receipts  that he can not explain
  • Cheating has voice mails from women that you don't know
  • Cheating husband has strange numbers stored in his phone or dialed numbers
  • The history on the home computer has porn and dating sites
  • Cheating husband has multiple e-mail accounts
  • Cheating husband deletes all e-mail messages in the inbox

You may also want to consider reviewing your spouse’s credit card bills.

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People argue that men have a natural instinct to bread with as many women as they can. This argument relies on the fact that men instinctively like other animals want to bread as much as possible. Whether that is true proper or reliable or not we will have to leave that up to the experts, but as private investigators we can surely say that men are able to cheat and dispose of the affair without any guilt to either party his wife or his mistress. This does not mean that women have extramarital affairs without guilt, it is just less common. Despite the threat of AIDS there are a lot of women out there willing to have unprotected sex with 2-3 guys per day and they might even be a prostitute that does it for money.  Some women are nymphs and they do it for free just to satisfy there sexual desires. They can be with 250-300 men in a year, sometimes two or three in the same day!

Studies show me to be driven by the need to feel good and to be with someone who sexually turns them on.. They often stray when they get a chance to have sex with a woman that is “prettier” than their wife or partner or they are attracted to certain body parts that the woman has like nice breasts, legs, butt, ect.. If they see their wife as being obese, not fit, non-attentive or too combative, infidelity becomes an alternative to satisfy their needs. We always hear the husband blame his wife for one reason or another for his infidelity like, "She doesn't wear makeup anymore", "she stopped cooking", "she doesn't give me sex anymore", "sex is a chore for her". “She got fat”; “she only cares about the children” or no affection of any kind has been demonstrated by her for a long time. They have always said men are simple creatures and they way to their heart is through food and sex.  That could be true because men like to feel wanted and desired by their mate to keep their interest and I guess if you are cooking and giving sex they just might be to satisfied enough not to go anywhere else.  Women know this and that is exactly what they use to get sex from a man.  They pay him attention, wear something sexy and maybe even cook him something.  I guarantee you if you put a sexy little house guest like that in a home while the wife is sleeping, come next morning that house guest will look like the cat that swallowed the mouse.

Men seem to be able to get away with cheating much easier. They seem to be able to maintain normal activities at home while having an affair or cheating.  Men have also grown to believe if they are caught that it is more likely that they will be forgiven for their indiscretion, thus sending a bad message that even if they are caught their wife will not leave them. "Mike and John" were caught cheating and their wives forgave them.  These men need to understand it is not a win that they were forgiven because they have caused so much pain within the relationship that can not be reversed and will always affect the woman mentally. Society has never frowned on a man who has sex with many women, on the other hand if a woman engages in the same conduct she is a "slut" or a "whore".  People love to hear about sexual exploits of famous people like of Hugh Hefner, John Holmes, Brad Pitt, Mick Jagger, etc. etc. Even our president gets caught getting a blow job with a young woman in the White House and he is still married with more popularity than ever. Men see sleeping with many women who desire you as power success all of which the average man whishes they had the money, power and everything that goes with it. As long as women except unfaithful behavior their men will take advantage of the opportunity.  To curve this behavior one must spend a lot of time with their spouse keep their sex life spiced up and be interested enough to notice the warning signs before things get to sideways and do something about it.  If you don't care no one else will.

Something that is worth mentioning is that with men and women when they cheat is because something is lacking in the marriage and someone's needs are not being met.

We, as private investigators like to get to know everything we can about the person we are investigating so we can have the best plan of action for the best most cost effective results.  In your situation it may be better to have a female decoy investigator approach your husband to see what he would do given an opportunity, or we may need to follow him to see what he is up to if he has already demonstrated suspicious behavior.  We can monitor his computer we can track him with gps tracking systems there really is not anything he can get away with when we are on the case.

You have to remember when most men cheat they don't ever want to hurt their wife that they love or upset their family so when they are caught they are crushed for causing harm to their relationship and family.  Most good men stop the behavior and become good boys at least for a while, but that leaves it up to you to see what is lacking in the relationship and work on it so it does not happen again.  I tell you one thing if a man is married to a woman who is persistent, in the relationship he knows that there is not much he can get away with.  He may fantasize but he will not turn it into reality in fear of getting caught.

 The private investigators at Mate Check have the ability to monitor your husband, see who he is with, where he goes and what your husband does when he is not with you, discreetly and confidentially. We can do this through video surveillance, by using gps tracking devices and giving you software to monitor all of his internet activity, such as e-mails, chat rooms web sites visited ect.

Although video surveillance is the most popular form of investigating a spouse, depending on your circumstances we may also utilize other investigative techniques to mold to your specific situation as follows:

 

  • Tracking the cheater's vehicle (GPS tracking)

  • Asset Searches in Michigan and Beyond

  • Electronic Eavesdropping Detection

  • E-Mail Tracing

  • Computer Forensic Investigations of your computer

  • Identification of the “Other Person”

  • Child Custody & Support Investigations

  • Female decoy placement

 

Because each case is different in its own way, we suggest that you call for a free confidential consultation with one of our seasoned investigators who can make recommendations that fit your situation and what has been happening in your relationship so we have the best plan of action for you to achieve the results you are looking for.  Either way you will either get piece of mind that he is not cheating and would not cheat even given the opportunity or you will learn the truth so you can at least deal with the truth rather than lies.  You can take the truth to a marriage counselor and they can actually help you with the truth but if you go to counseling without the truth it is just he said she said and nothing comes out of it.

Why Men Cheat - From A Man's Point of View!

Why Men are Unfaithful and Cheat, Cheating Man...What is a A Woman To Do?

To understand why men cheat is really simple.  It's so easy to figure out if you pay attention to the simple things

Finding out that you have a cheating man is one of the most painful devastating things that you could go through in your life especially if you are deeply committed to this person and love him..

Your female intuition tells you that you have a cheating man, but you ignore the signs.  If you do ignore these signs and do nothing about it things will only get worse.

The important thing to know is way men cheat even though you do everything for him.

Until you get the answers you are looking for the mere thought of your man cheating and having sex with another woman will eat you alive!

Even if you catch your man cheating red handed you will not know why he really did it! He will just tell you what he thinks you want to hear, "she pushed herself on me" ect.

You do not want to spend the rest of your life trying to figure out why men cheat do you?

I must admit I have always been a cheating man and I want to tell you why I cheat so you can be saved the pain of wondering.

Men can stop cheating anytime they want to but they choose not to and in a few moments you will know why.

I want to give you the knowledge so you can see the signs and curve the behavior in your own relationship.

Once he knows you have the knowledge he will not be able to get away with cheating and he will have to stop if he loves you and wants to stay in your life.

The secrete of why men cheat are reviled.

Men do not want you to understand:

* Why men do not think of you before they cheat
* The REAL reasons why men cheat, even the good ones
* How you can possibly prevent your man from cheating
* How you push your man away
* Why your man won't open up to you
* Why your man thinking nasty thoughts about other women doesn't make him cheat
* Why catching your man talking to another women does not mean he is cheating
* Why your man's flirting doesn't mean he is cheating
* How you can neglect your partner's needs and not be aware of it
* How most cheating is no reflection on you and the relationship
* How your man can truly love you and still cheat
* Why the other woman isn't the problem
* Why your man find it difficult to control his cheating ways
* If you really communicate with, and listen to, your man
* How understanding your man's past can prevent him from cheating
* What cause your man to lose control
* How to help your man turndown sexual opportunities from other women with a smile on his face

"I really enjoyed the report and I thought that the information in it was very helpful to me. In fact, it is the only source of real advice and information that I have come across while trying to understand this topic of why men cheat. The report was very well put together, thorough, and informative and I love how it's from a man's point of view."

Follow the next three links for more information;

WHO WILL MARRIED MEN CHEAT WITH

MORE INFORMATION ON UNFAITHFUL HUSBANDS

WHY MARRIED MEN CHEAT

THE THREE MOST COMMON EXCUSES USED BY MEN WHEN CHEATING

Besides telling you that there is 'No Cell Service" your husband will give you many excuses when they are cheating or having an affair.  Most of the excuses are common excuses that should be believed under normal circumstances so you will not know unless you have actual physical proof.

  • Working Late:

    Cheating husbands love this excuse because you must let your husband work to pay the bills and you must not bother him to much at work because he could be fired.  if you drive by you will see his car and believe he is working, but what he did not tell you he has been staying late because he has been fucking one of the cute little office girls that is just trying to get ahead by giving some head.  Most cheating men have no couth when it comes to cheating they will cheat with anyone who arouses them even your best friend if she is willing.  Try a DNA test kit when they come home from work and you may find semen in their underwear.

     

  • Boys Trip:

    Many men go on these boys trips and they are always in places they can get in trouble like Cabo San Lucas or other Mexico destinations, or places like Las Vegas.  Is Las Vegas just about golf and cards? NO its also about all of the beautiful women.  Lets not forget that prostitution is legal in Nevada. It is a Stripper and Prostitute heaven.  The last time I was there just walking down the strip I was handed a half a dozen or so business cards of known prostitutes without my solicitation of it. In Mexico every Strip Club and Massage Parlor is about the sex.  Mexican women meet a lot of their American Husbands this way.  I have seen men begin affairs in Mexico and start sending money to there new little family until they finally leave there wife for their new little Mexican Senorita.  They will do anything to satisfy the American because they like that American dollar and the prospect of being able to live in the states.  These women are easy to find they are hot sexy and willing please your spouse.  Should you worry when your husband travels? Yes every time.  Usually a guys trip is designed for cheating in mind that is why they pick the destinations that they do and you are not invited.  but really they will use any event like the Barrett Jackson Auto Show, golfing events, races, ect.  Whenever there are events there are women who work the scene.  most men can spot a prostitute in a crowd and the rest is history.  You really should hire an investigator to see what goes on on these trips because after you do it will probably be the last one for him. We here at Mate Check specialize in all of these hot spots and can have someone checked out in a moments notice.  Even if your husband travels on business a lot you really should see what he is getting into while he is away because men are like children they can get into things if you don't keep you eye on them.  Just like children they will get away with what they can.  If you love your spouse you are going to have to put your foot down unless you don't mind him having sex with a great number of women thought your relationship.  Of course your husband loves you but he will get away with what he can by human nature. If you set the standard that you do not tolerate this kind of behavior and you stick with it you will have a much more faithful relationship.
     

  • Sports or Hobby Days:

    Men have many hobbies like golfing, hiking, biking, fishing, camping, hunting, working out, flying, skiing, surfing ect.  These are all great covers for days to cheat.  if your husband has been acting strange sending your female intuition into overdrive combined with him spending more time with his hobby, you may be in trouble here too.  His hobby could have been replaced by a sexy little disaster.  He could spend hours away golfing and you could even drive by if you know the golf course and see his car there, but what you don't know is that he is naked in a Hotel with his little squeeze of choice doing only GOD knows what.  Then he comes home to you, lovely isn't it.  Sad but so true.

We here at Mate Check hope that you are not experiencing this with your spouse  but if you are please call us for a free confidential consultation+1 (866) 640.1010 for a free consultation. We can help and you can get control of your life back.

 

How do you catch a cheating Husband?

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How do you catch a cheating husband / boyfriend / or fiancé.

If he is cheating, the quickest method is hiring a private investigator or a detective. It can be hard to find a good one and it can be expensive. You pretty much have to get the goods on him if you are dealing with children, property and money. If you don't get enough of the right evidence it may not be enough to prevail in court so make sure in these type of cases you definitely us a professional expert private investigator that specializes in this area of private investigations like Mate Check Private investigations.

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As a "final proof" resort to verify what you should already be pretty sure of (get all of your evidence together): computer monitoring software on his computer, or something else to track his computer usage like chat rooms, adult web sites, dating web sites, emails ect.

Optionally, and very useful, check out an application like Cell phone forensic recovery devise which should help you track his phone behavior (text messages, phone call log, etc.)  Never confront a spouse without enough evidence because they will only get real careful and cover their tracks making it even more difficult to catch them.  Always use the right gagits and tools to get your evidence secretly and covertly so they will not know what hit them.  You want a cheater to feel comfortable about what is going on so they don't get spooked and you can catch them.

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If you have suspicions lunch times and weekends are the best times to hire a detective (usually approx. $95 per hour to $150 per hour) and you should have your answer. If you can't afford this, then you will have to follow him because nothing is better than being a fly on the wall. When Mate Check follows someone they use high powered equipment that the cheater just can't get away from.  If they go inside a bar or restaurant Mate Check will follow behind with hidden video and sound so you don't miss a thing.  A private investigator can run a plate number of a vehicle if your husband comes into contact with another female and her vehicle, we then can simply find out exactly who that person is by the next day. Female private investigators can also pose as potential dates, mates to see if your husband would take the bait and how he would handle himself given the opportunity of a chance meeting with a female.  This process is called a Decoy Service.

Cheating Husbands always use the excuse I Honey I Have to work late.  Have an investigator covertly stake out his place of employment.  He will never know but you will.

Another thing to look for is when cheating husbands make up so many different excuses as means to get out of the house.  You should have a private investigator follow up on these places he says he is going and find out what he is actually doing.

 The biggest bust but men are this careless is lipstick stains on his clothing

The scent of a woman like perfume

Weird phone calls where someone calls but does not say anything when you answer.

If he says he is working late all the time see if his paycheck shows overtime to substantiate the lost time from home.

Always look at your credit card monthly billing statements and look for suspicious charges.  Most charges have a phone number with a reference number and you can find out exactly what the charge was for.  A lot of internet dating web sites and porn sites use dicreit billing so you have to actually call and see what company that charge was for.  Also look for hotels, motels, restaurant bills for dinner or lunch that would also show amount paid would substantiate a meal with a female guest when he said he ate alone.

Always be sure to hire an investigator to be sure your husband is cheating because he may really work hard long hours and he may really go golfing with the guys every week.  So do your due diligence first. 

If you think he is cheating whether he is or not you should have him followed for your own peace of mind and for the added stress on the relationship related to trust issues.  You just may need to see that he is a good boy when he is not with you and then you can put those thought to rest for the time being.  You will have a healthier relationship by knowing, but if he is cheating you will at least have the truth to deal with.


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When you suspect cheating is going on you should maintain your composure and hire a private investigator to do the snooping.  If you do the snooping you will get consumed with it and whether your right or not it is not healthy of what the snooping does to you emotionally.  If you just go on with your life in a secure fashion feel empowered that if he is cheating your investigator will supply you with the information and or give you updates that he is where he said he would be and that he is being a good boy.  That is a much healthier approach.  You can even get things set up so not only is your investigator telling you where he is your gps tracking devise that your investigator can sell you will tell you where he is as well.  Your computer will tell you everything he has done on it after your investigator set up their approved invisible software that will send you e-mails of all of his activity.  So don't get consumed and destroy your own mental state work smart and informed.  This is a much more empowered approach.


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Most marriage counselors will tell you that if you are constantly getting this feeling that your husband is cheating that your suspicions usually are right.

Remember you  don't go to the doctor unless you feel sick and you go to a private investigator when your relationship has symptoms of cheating.

How do you catch your cheating husband?

 

Catching a Cheater

These are some helpful ways to catch a cheating Husband. Please remember that not all of these suggestions are legal in all jurisdictions so  check the laws where you live before attempting.

Check Phone Bills

If you are married or if you provide a cell phone to your husband or significant other you should be able to legally get copies of the cell phone bills and analyze the bill for the amount of calls duration of calls and the times of day these calls are taking place whether they are text or voice it does not matter.  You can zero in on the number and then you can call Mate Check to reverse the suspicious number so you can find out exactly who the person is.  If you are too busy and have received phone records that you have legally obtained Mate Check can also analyze the bill for you.  Make check can also recover cell phone records such as text messages and numbers dialed that have been erased purchase device and do it at home.
 

Follow Them

Hire a Private Investigator to follow them. Plan a day in advance, tell your husband days in advance that you have to do something this friday like a baby shower for a girl at work, business, help a friend or family member and that you are going to be home late so he does not have to worry about you on that day.  We will get to see exactly what he chooses to do on a day that he does not have to worry about where you are or that your expecting him home.  If he is seeing someone he will make plans.  If he has some guilty pleasure he will do it.

Investigate Computer or Internet Use

You defiantly should put computer monitoring software to see what he does on the computer when you are not around.  These days it is so easy to meet people online who want the same thing you do sex weird fetishes you don't know about, bi-sexual tendencies you don't know about.  The home computer will be a world of information for you.

Look at Credit Card Statements

Look for all receipts and charge card statements showing dinners and lunches for two and Hotels motels gifts you did not receive ect.

Semen Detection Kits

You can test his underwear for semen if you know you were not with him sexually that day he would have some explaining to do.

Mate Check Carries a Semen detection kit you can ORDER.

Surprise them at Work

Make yourself known at his employment bring him lunch and bring some extra muffins or something for a hungry co-worker that could not get lunch.  Doing this will do a few things number one is that other co-workers will know he is taken and number two you may have just made a new friend by your muffin gift (inside man/woman).  If he has been cheating at work people may want to expose him after seeing you. Be friendly make friends but be careful.  You just might also catch him in the act since he was just headed out to eat lunch at the Y with a co-worker at her apartment.

 

ANSWER

In order for you to move on you need to know the truth for yourself through your own eyes. You can also put extra pressure on a already weakened relationship by suspecting the untrue. So you will benefit either way with peace of mind, if you spouse is not cheating or to confirm your suspicions so you can make decisions on what can be done to save the relationship or go your separate ways.

 

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