If your husband is having an affair it is likely to be one of the most hurtful things you can go through. The not knowing if your husband is being unfaithful is equally as painful. Even the idea that your husband is being unfaithful causes extreme anxiety. Each of the private investigators at Mate Check is here to assist clients like you with this issue, every day. We know that you need a private investigator to get you proof so that you can move forward with your life. Sandra Hope has specializes in domestic relations and matters of the heart including infidelity, divorce, child custody all of which can be the result of having an affair.  Your spouse could be addicted to porn or even worse child pornography.  These are serious issues and we resolve it on our Spouse and Child Porn page dedicated to this sensitive issue, a must see.

We all know that both women and men cheat but there are certain types of behavior that is shown by men primarily when faced with infidelity in a relationship.

Recent statistics show that men are more likely to engage in unfaithful activities for the sexual gratification only, than are women. Although not as a rule but, we do see more circumstances of men cheating on their wives solely for sexual gratification. These men will have sex with just about any willing female but they typically want them to leave faster than they came into their life. Women typically tend to have an emotional connection between them and the person they are cheating with, probably in hopes of furthering the relationship to a lasting one. A woman knows they can find a man for sex any time they want but on the other hand men have to typically seek it out and be the pursuer. Most cheating men do not get emotionally attached to their mistresses but women do get emotionally attached to the person they are having the affair with. Experts say women definitely fantasize but they know how to separate a fantasy from reality unlike men who have trouble separating fantasy from bringing it to reality.

People argue that men have a natural instinct to bread with as many women as they can. This argument relies on the fact that men instinctively like other animals want to bread as much as possible. Whether that is true proper or reliable or not we will have to leave that up to the experts, but as private investigators we can surely say that men are able to cheat and dispose of the affair without any guilt to either party his wife or his mistress. This does not mean that women have extramarital affairs without guilt, it is just less common. Despite the threat of AIDS there are a lot of women out there willing to have unprotected sex with 2-3 guys per day and they might even be a prostitute that does it for money.  Some women are nymphs and they do it for free just to satisfy there sexual desires. They can be with 250-300 men in a year, sometimes two or three in the same day!

Studies show me to be driven by the need to feel good and to be with someone who sexually turns them on.. They often stray when they get a chance to have sex with a woman that is “prettier” than their wife or partner or they are attracted to certain body parts that the woman has like nice breasts, legs, butt, ect.. If they see their wife as being obese, not fit, non-attentive or too combative, infidelity becomes an alternative to satisfy their needs. We always hear the husband blame his wife for one reason or another for his infidelity like, "She doesn't wear makeup anymore", "she stopped cooking", "she doesn't give me sex anymore", "sex is a chore for her". “She got fat”; “she only cares about the children” or no affection of any kind has been demonstrated by her for a long time. They have always said men are simple creatures and they way to their heart is through food and sex.  That could be true because men like to feel wanted and desired by their mate to keep their interest and I guess if you are cooking and giving sex they just might be to satisfied enough not to go anywhere else.  Women know this and that is exactly what they use to get sex from a man.  They pay him attention, wear something sexy and maybe even cook him something.  I guarantee you if you put a sexy little house guest like that in a home while the wife is sleeping, come next morning that house guest will look like the cat that swallowed the mouse.

Men seem to be able to get away with cheating much easier. They seem to be able to maintain normal activities at home while having an affair or cheating.  Men have also grown to believe if they are caught that it is more likely that they will be forgiven for their indiscretion, thus sending a bad message that even if they are caught their wife will not leave them. "Mike and John" were caught cheating and their wives forgave them.  These men need to understand it is not a win that they were forgiven because they have caused so much pain within the relationship that can not be reversed and will always affect the woman mentally. Society has never frowned on a man who has sex with many women, on the other hand if a woman engages in the same conduct she is a "slut" or a "whore".  People love to hear about sexual exploits of famous people like of Hugh Hefner, John Holmes, Brad Pitt, Mick Jagger, etc. etc. Even our president gets caught getting a blow job with a young woman in the White House and he is still married with more popularity than ever. Men see sleeping with many women who desire you as power success all of which the average man whishes they had the money, power and everything that goes with it. As long as women except unfaithful behavior their men will take advantage of the opportunity.  To curve this behavior one must spend a lot of time with their spouse keep their sex life spiced up and be interested enough to notice the warning signs before things get to sideways and do something about it.  If you don't care no one else will.

Something that is worth mentioning is that with men and women when they cheat is because something is lacking in the marriage and someone's needs are not being met.

We, as private investigators like to get to know everything we can about the person we are investigating so we can have the best plan of action for the best most cost effective results.  In your situation it may be better to have a female decoy investigator approach your husband to see what he would do given an opportunity, or we may need to follow him to see what he is up to if he has already demonstrated suspicious behavior.  We can monitor his computer we can track him with gps tracking systems there really is not anything he can get away with when we are on the case.

You have to remember when most men cheat they don't ever want to hurt their wife that they love or upset their family so when they are caught they are crushed for causing harm to their relationship and family.  Most good men stop the behavior and become good boys at least for a while, but that leaves it up to you to see what is lacking in the relationship and work on it so it does not happen again.  I tell you one thing if a man is married to a woman who is persistent, in the relationship he knows that there is not much he can get away with.  He may fantasize but he will not turn it into reality in fear of getting caught.

 The private investigators at Mate Check have the ability to monitor your husband, see who he is with, where he goes and what your husband does when he is not with you, discreetly and confidentially. We can do this through video surveillance, by using gps tracking devices and giving you software to monitor all of his internet activity, such as e-mails, chat rooms web sites visited ect.

Although video surveillance is the most popular form of investigating a spouse, depending on your circumstances we may also utilize other investigative techniques to mold to your specific situation as follows:

 

• Tracking the cheater's vehicle (GPS tracking)

• Asset Searches in Michigan and Beyond

• Electronic Eavesdropping Detection

• E-Mail Tracing

• Computer Forensic Investigations of your computer

• Identification of the “Other Person”

• Child Custody & Support Investigations

• Female decoy placement

 

Because each case is different in its own way, we suggest that you call for a free confidential consultation with one of our seasoned investigators who can make recommendations that fit your situation and what has been happening in your relationship so we have the best plan of action for you to achieve the results you are looking for.  Either way you will either get piece of mind that he is not cheating and would not cheat even given the opportunity or you will learn the truth so you can at least deal with the truth rather than lies.  You can take the truth to a marriage counselor and they can actually help you with the truth but if you go to counseling without the truth it is just he said she said and nothing comes out of it.

Why Men Cheat - From A Man's Point of View!

Why Men are Unfaithful and Cheat, Cheating Man...What is a A Woman To Do?

 

To understand why men cheat is really simple.  It's so easy to figure out if you pay attention to the simple things

Finding out that you have a cheating man is one of the most painful devastating things that you could go through in your life especially if you are deeply committed to this person and love him..

Your female intuition tells you that you have a cheating man, but you ignore the signs.  If you do ignore these signs and do nothing about it things will only get worse.

The important thing to know is way men cheat even though you do everything for him.

Until you get the answers you are looking for the mere thought of your man cheating and having sex with another woman will eat you alive!

Even if you catch your man cheating red handed you will not know why he really did it! He will just tell you what he thinks you want to hear, "she pushed herself on me" ect.

You do not want to spend the rest of your life trying to figure out why men cheat do you?

I must admit I have always been a cheating man and I want to tell you why I cheat so you can be saved the pain of wondering.

Men can stop cheating anytime they want to but they choose not to and in a few moments you will know why.

I want to give you the knowledge so you can see the signs and curve the behavior in your own relationship.

Once he knows you have the knowledge he will not be able to get away with cheating and he will have to stop if he loves you and wants to stay in your life.

The secrete of why men cheat are reviled.

Men do not want you to understand:

* Why men do not think of you before they cheat
* The REAL reasons why men cheat, even the good ones
* How you can possibly prevent your man from cheating
* How you push your man away
* Why your man won't open up to you
* Why your man thinking nasty thoughts about other women doesn't make him cheat
* Why catching your man talking to another women does not mean he is cheating
* Why your man's flirting doesn't mean he is cheating
* How you can neglect your partner's needs and not be aware of it
* How most cheating is no reflection on you and the relationship
* How your man can truly love you and still cheat
* Why the other woman isn't the problem
* Why your man find it difficult to control his cheating ways
* If you really communicate with, and listen to, your man
* How understanding your man's past can prevent him from cheating
* What cause your man to lose control
* How to help your man turndown sexual opportunities from other women with a smile on his face

"I really enjoyed the report and I thought that the information in it was very helpful to me. In fact, it is the only source of real advice and information that I have come across while trying to understand this topic of why men cheat. The report was very well put together, thorough, and informative and I love how it's from a man's point of view."

WHO WILL MARRIED MEN CHEAT WITH

Men will cheat with just about anyone as long as the physical attraction is there, but as licensed private investigators specializing in infidelity cases, we see all the different types of situations of who men cheat with and why as follows :

• Co-workers 

  This is the biggest cheating playground for men.  There is plenty of women within the workplace including vendors and customers.  They spend time with these women everyday and they have a lot in common since they are in the same line of work.  They develop friendships with these women and a bond is formed.  A lot of times these women are married and still looking to cheat at work.  We have seen people take lunch at a hotel or sex in the car at the park.
   

• Waitresses:

  When me go to Bars they usually encounter scantily dressed waitresses probably hanging their cleavage over the table most of these women are single or looking for someone to take care of them so they do not have to work as a server any longer.  Men like to pick up on waitresses in front of their buddies because that is like a trophy catch to a man.

   

• Online:

  It is so easy these days for men to find women online to cheat with, there are sites dedicated to married people who want to cheat and they match you up with people who live closest to you that are ready and willing to have sex like www.ashleymadison.com .  This kind of stuff is music to a mans ears or like a dream coming true.  Since men have always had to pursue there sex partners to find willing ones, they know have the option of searching for women who are ready for you just to come over and have sex.  You husband might really like blowjobs but you can't do it all the time your mouth gets sore.  Maybe his penis is to large, but surely there is a woman he can search out that has a fetish for giving blow jobs to well endowed men with no strings attached.  I guarantee you he will be over this woman's house on his lunch break getting what he like most. I don't mean to be to graphic but this is reality.  Online offers all of the free sex a man could want, that could be addicting and a new way for him to take care of his needs with the thrill of a new partner every time.

   

• Strippers:

  Yes, many husbands go to strip clubs and get up-close lap dances with the purpose of enjoyment and arousal. The truth is if your husband goes to a strip club he will have sex with one of the girls if he has the opportunity.  You can get private dances in private rooms and we have gone undercover in where we have learned people are even having sex in these private rooms.  To help a club owner we set up an undercover camera in a private room to check for illegal activity and a number of the girls would pull the mans penis right out in the room and sit on top of it for a fee of course.  Strippers love to build a list of clientele that buy them gifts, pay there bills and of course in return they take care of there needs. This type of activity turns into a paid mistress most strippers will have at least five different guys going at the same time.  Strippers are basically prostitutes they just work out of a different location under a different pretence, but they are ready to book the biz.

   

• Hookers:

  A lot of me like to hire hookers or prostitutes instead of having affairs.  They believe in just paying for the sex that they want and not having to worry about the woman coming back to haunt him.  Affairs can come back to haunt you when you can pay a prostitute or a hooker to go away and not bother you when it is over.  governor Spritzer tried exactly that but it still came back to haunt him because he is a public figure and people can not resist to capitalize on someone else's fame. typically you can order a prostitute or hooker the way you want it like a pizza to go.  If you prefer Asian women, Hispanic, big breasts, small breasts it does not matter you can get what you want.  a lot of these women take care of themselves to stay pleasing to the eye and they are hot sexy individuals ready to please your every pleasure.  They are very convenient and usually discreet.  affairs still take a lot of work and time to maintain just like any relationship while hiring a prostitute, call girl, hooker or whatever you want to call them is the sexual quick fix when you need to have it in a hurry.

  Massage Therapists

  Does your husband enjoy getting a massage, I bet he does! most massage therapist have had so much dick in there hands they can probably tell you what the national average penis size is.  It is very common to have a massage with a happy ending by way of a hand job, or a blow job, but that's not all that goes on remember there is a bed in the room and you can pay for whatever you want. By the way you ladies are not that innocent because I have spoke with some male massage therapists that have had sex with plenty of there female clients and if they like it they become regular customers.

It might gross you out the things these women are willing to do for money but you have to remember a lot of women in the sex for money trades love sex themselves, they love giving and receiving and especially getting paid for something that feels good.

If you even suspect that your spouse is getting his guilt free pleasure from any of these types of women call us for a free confidential consultation at 866-640-1010. We can help you maintain your foundation of a pure relationship without this stuff in your life by helping you gain control and put an end to it..

 

THE THREE MOST COMMON EXCUSES USED BY MEN WHEN CHEATING

 

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