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Here Is A List of Thirty Cheating Signs Your Spouse May Be Guilty Of

If you suspect any of the following behavior pattern in your spouse then they may be cheating on you

• Working too much overtime
• Using the internet a lot
• Further recorded mileage on their car
• Spending time with new friends
• Having a scent of perfume, cologne, or alcohol
• Not wanting you to see phone bills
• Usage of pager
• Disinterested in sexual activities with you
• Not wearing the wedding ring
• Asking you for space
• Suddenly more time is spent from home
• Often fantasying and preoccupied
• Phone calls are not returned on time
• Finding out your activities and schedule more often
• Doing the laundry alone
• Increase use of Viagra
• Dressing more attractive and paying attention to small accessories
• More interested in trying new things sexually than before
• Not paying enough attention
• Not concerned about family issues
• Carries more cash than normal
• Mysterious receipts are personal effects in wallet
• Mysterious bank statement entries
• Has in their possession gas credit card receipts from unusual places
• Phone messages are guarded
• Spending a long time on a phone call
• Browsing uncommon websites
• Receiving unusual e-mails
• Is tense when you observe them on the phone or computer

How do you catch someone cheating?

Catching a Cheater

How do you catch someone cheating?

Here are a few ways of busting someone who is cheating. Please note that these methods might not be legal in some jurisdiction.

Check Phone Bills for cheating signs

If the person is in possession of a cell phone check all the dialed and received calls. Try and find the numbers that are unknown to you. You can look on the cell phone bill for these as well. In addition, look at the home phone bill, if you don’t have a call log to see all the calls then you can make a request for one.

Check through the numbers carefully. Try calling the number you see right after they call you and ask your location and then dial the unknown number, if of course they do this. Voicemails are great, should you encounter them as most often you will get a name on the voicemail.

Also, if you are sure of the signs of cheating then you can use the software called FlexiSPY (http://www.flexispy.com). It tracks the usage of their cell phone. Gathering evidence like this can be helpful for you.

Follow Them

You can simply hire a professional to follow them or you can do so yourself.

 Take time off from your normal working hours around the exact time the strange phone calls are made which you would have found from your phone bill. Do not consult with your SO about this. Next, get a car from a friend or rent one. It is important that your So doesn’t know the car. Maybe you can get a tinted one. After, ensure you have your SO in clear view. Grab a camera and take a couple of shots if you find anything unusual but keep yourself in hiding.

There are also trackers that you can place on the car to see the locations they have visited.

Simply ask about their activities that they had later if you see them visiting any hotel or suspicious house. This should seem natural without any suspicions with the question. It is obvious they will lie to you. More interesting, you can follow them to the hotel and block the peek hole so they open the door. Maybe they figure out you are outside and wont open the door. Give their cell phone a ring and listen for the tone from outside.

If you ended up at someone else’s house and they answered the door instead of your SO then have your cell phone out in a snap and after they lie and say your SO is not there listen for the ringer while walking. Your SO will be busted! An alternative is to walk with pepper spray and if you are told that your SO is not in there when you already saw them enter the room then make use of the spray and rush in the room and find your SO.

Investigate Computer or Internet Use

Check for signs of cheating on the internet.

Computer software or a key logger can be efficient for this. It is priced around $300 dollars and can be installed and ready in about five minutes. Do not tell them that you installed the software. If they use the internet at home to converse with their partner then you can view web page screenshots, all keys typed and all the websites they visited. It may be that your Spouse does not use the internet as a means of communication at home but if they do then it provides you with a lot of proof which can all be printed. Even if they use their email at work it is only necessary that they log in once at home and you can have the username and password to use anytime to check your suspicions.

 Look at Credit Card Statements for signs of cheating

Try searching for credit card receipts with dinner or lunch for two persons or hotel. This may hint signs of cheating.

Semen Detection Kits to reveal signs of cheating

You can grab one of these for about 45 dollars and can use it in 5-10 minutes to test for seamen. Use it on your girlfriend’s underwear to unravel the mysteries of those white stains especially if you are a guy and don’t have sex often with your SO. If you are a woman then this will not be of use to you as I am a man and might have traces of seamen on my underwear but I’m no cheater.

Surprise them at Work

Out of the blue, just show up at their workplace with muffins and pastries. Offer them to the co-workers as well being very friendly to everyone. This can do so much for you. It sends the message that your SO is committed to everyone around. This will inform all the co workers and they will keep an eye on your SO. Most often there is someone that ineffectively hit on your SO or someone who has been cheated on. Maybe there is even someone that can’t tolerate your SO and would want to reveal their cheating. This will cause your SO to be more cautious and leave trails for you when using their cell phone and other ways to communicate with their cheating partner. It is sometimes beneficial to have a good friend at the workplace as well be cautious with them as well.

Look Inside yourself to find the reasons you suspect signs of cheating in your SO

Identify your suspicions about your partner’s cheating signs carefully. Is it that you may be guilty and doing someone wrong? My roommate’s girlfriend was cheating with someone else and because of her guilt she always felt that her boyfriend was cheating and accused him numerous times. I know for sure he was faithful because I am his roommate.  Now my friend became suspicious because of her acquisitions and eventually he caught her cheating. At present, they are not together anymore but he still has sex with her and other women as well. I don’t see anything wrong with this because he was always faithful and turned down the opportunities he had so now its just fun for him.                                                                          

It is always important that you be honest with yourself and identify the real reasons behind your suspicions. Maybe you are bored or unhappy with the relationship, maybe there is someone else that would like to be with even though you did not cheat. It could also be that you want a good reason to break off the relationship because the love is not there anymore. Be sure you identify all the right reasons.

Catching a Cheater

How do you catch someone cheating?

Here are some ways to catch someone cheating. Note that these might not be legal in all jurisdictions.

Check Phone Bills

If they have a cell phone, you need to take a look at the call log. Look for numbers you don't know. Also, check your home phone, if you don't have the details of the calls on your home phone on your bill, request it. Also check cell phone bills.

Analyze the numbers and data. If they call you and find out where you are at then they call another number after every time, call that number.If you can get a voicemail great because their name will most likely be on the voicemail.

There is also the option of using softare like FlexiSPY (http://www.flexispy.com) to track cell phone usage data. In the end, proof like this will be important. Make sure you're positive they're cheating before taking this approach though.
 

Follow Them

Hire a detective to follow him or her, or follow them yourself one night.

Get a day off from work or your normal routine on the days your SO usually calls that mysterious number by reviewing the phone bill, but don't tell your SO. Borrow a good friend's car that your SO will probably not recognize or pay attention too with tint and sit there within view of of your SO's car and pretty much stock them if they leave and follow them. Take pictures if you see anything out of line, but don't reveal yourself.

You can hook on a car tracker which maps out everywhere someone's vehicle has been also. If you see him or her going to a woman's house or hotel ask him or her about what they did later. They will lie of course. It would be even greater to watch which hotel room they go to and go cover the peephole and knock on the door and have them open it. If they know you are out there and won't leave or answer the door and they have a cellphone and you have one call it and listen to it go off inside the room. :) IF it is a other person's house or apartment and he/she answers already have your cell ready and call it as soon as they open the door and BS's about your SO is not there call it and listen for the ringer going off around the corner of the hall way. Your SO will poop their pants. If they say they aren't their even though you saw them go in there and If you feel warranted spray the person cheating with your SO with a pepper spray fogger and fight past them into the house or hotel room you saw 100% your SO go into and catch them in there.

Investigate Computer or Internet Use

Look on the internet for signs a spouse is cheating.

You might buy a keylogger. Never let them know you installed it. They may not even communicate with their other lover on the computer though. If your SO uses the computer a lot though this one is good and produces evidence you can even print out. They may be at work when they use their email account but once they log on from home even once you have their screen name and password and can check their account anytime. It takes about five minutes to install and cost me about $40. You see everything. Web page screenshots, every key typed, every website visited.

Look at Credit Card Statements

Look for receipts or charges on a credit card for dinner or lunch for two, or hotels.

Semen Detection Kits

If you are a male and don't regularly have sex with your SO you can buy checkmate which is a home semen detection kit cost about 45 dollars and takes 5-10 minutes. You can tell what those white stains in you girlfriend's underwear are. (Women, don't use it on your man's underwear. I can tell you cause I am a man and might have a little semen in my drawer and I don't cheat.)

Surprise them at Work

Bring them lunch at work unexpectedly and be friendly to all his/her co-workers giving them muffins and pasteries. This does a lot of things. It lets the other people know your SO is taken and in a relationship. The people in the office will know he or she is taken and will be watching them. There is always someone in the office who has been cheated on in the past ,or unsuccessfully hit on your SO, or plain just doesn't like them and will try and expose them. Your SO will have to try to keep it under wraps more and use the cell phone and other means giving a paper trail. Having a friend in his office is good, but beware of them also.

Look Inside

Look at the reason why you are suspicious. Are you doing something wrong yourself. Guilt is a powerful thing. My buddy's girlfriend who was cheating on him was always suspicious and accusing him and since he was my roommate, I know for a fact he wasn't cheating on her. Then he got suspicious because she was always accusing him and he caught her. Now she isn't his girlfriend and he has sex with her and lots of other women and he has the right as far as I'm concerned. He was faithful to her and didn't take the numerous opportunities thrown at him. Now he just has fun.

Are you just plain unhappy with your relationship and want out? Maybe you don't want to be the bad guy and break it off and want a good reason too other than you are just bored with them or don't love them after all the things they have done for you. Maybe you already have your eyes on someone else and desire them even though you haven't cheated. Be completely honest with yourself and what you want and the true reason you are suspicious.

More Signs That Your Spouse May Be Cheating

Here are some more signs of cheating that your SO may be guilty

• Spending time away from home all of a sudden
• Does not seem very sexually interested with you
• They are often lost in thoughts
• They are not available most times even though they are at work
• They are attending gatherings not related to work and usually want to go alone
• Your calls are not returned in a timely manner
• Secretly talking on the telephone
• Using the internet when you are not around
• Asks about your activities more than normal
• High mileage on their car even though normal routes are short
• Perfume scented clothes
• Going to do the laundry by themselves
• Mysterious payments on bank statements
• Carrying more money than normal without any reason
• Long phone calls are recorded on cell phone bills
• Usage of cell phone card which was never used by them before
• Mysterious receipts in carrying piece
• Mysterious voice mails
• Mysterious dialed or stored cell phone numbers
• Their web browsing history has unusual sites visited
• Usage of new emails or free ones
• Suddenly trashing email messages

The professional services provided at Mate Check Private Investigations can unravel all the suspicions and the unusual behavior patterns of your SO.

Be sure to contact them about your suspicions cheating signs so they can clarify all the facts for you.

 

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