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As this section of the web site will be a continuing work in progress, please check back often to obtain valuable information that may assist you in finding out if your significant other may be cheating.

Thirty Signs Your Significant Other Could Be Cheating

If your mate, partner, or significant other is doing any or all of the following, they may be cheating on you.

  • Working lots of overtime
  • Excessive use of the Internet
  • Additional mileage on the car
  • Hanging out with new friends
  • Smells of perfume, cologne, or alcohol
  • Hiding phone or cell-phone bill
  • Using a pager
  • No longer interested in sex
  • No longer wearing a wedding ring
  • Saying "I need space"
  • Sudden increase in time away from home
  • Often distracted and daydreaming
  • Not returning phone calls in a timely fashion
  • Asking about your schedule more than usual
  • Getting his or her laundry done independently
  • Using more Viagra
  • Paying more attention to clothes and accessories
  • More interested in trying new things sexually than before
  • Less attentive
  • Less interested in family issues
  • Has more cash on hand than usual
  • Has unexplained receipts or personal effects in wallet
  • Has unexplained payments on bank statement
  • Has gas credit card receipts from gas stations at uncommon locations
  • Getting suspicious phone messages
  • Making unusually long phone calls
  • Visiting unusual sites on the Internet
  • Getting uncommon e-mail messages
  • Becomes nervous when watched when on the phone or computer

How do you catch someone cheating?

Catching a Cheater

How do you catch someone cheating?

Here are some ways to catch someone cheating. Note that these might not be legal in all jurisdictions.

Check Phone Bills

If they have a cell phone, you need to take a look at the call log. Look for numbers you don't know. Also, check your home phone, if you don't have the details of the calls on your home phone on your bill, request it. Also check cell phone bills.

Analyze the numbers and data. If they call you and find out where you are at then they call another number after every time, call that number.If you can get a voicemail great because their name will most likely be on the voicemail.

There is also the option of using softare like FlexiSPY (http://www.flexispy.com) to track cell phone usage data. In the end, proof like this will be important. Make sure you're positive they're cheating before taking this approach though.
 

Follow Them

Hire a detective to follow him or her, or follow them yourself one night.

Get a day off from work or your normal routine on the days your SO usually calls that mysterious number by reviewing the phone bill, but don't tell your SO. Borrow a good friend's car that your SO will probably not recognize or pay attention too with tint and sit there within view of of your SO's car and pretty much stock them if they leave and follow them. Take pictures if you see anything out of line, but don't reveal yourself.

You can hook on a car tracker which maps out everywhere someone's vehicle has been also. If you see him or her going to a woman's house or hotel ask him or her about what they did later. They will lie of course. It would be even greater to watch which hotel room they go to and go cover the peephole and knock on the door and have them open it. If they know you are out there and won't leave or answer the door and they have a cellphone and you have one call it and listen to it go off inside the room. :) IF it is a other person's house or apartment and he/she answers already have your cell ready and call it as soon as they open the door and BS's about your SO is not there call it and listen for the ringer going off around the corner of the hall way. Your SO will poop their pants. If they say they aren't their even though you saw them go in there and If you feel warranted spray the person cheating with your SO with a pepper spray fogger and fight past them into the house or hotel room you saw 100% your SO go into and catch them in there.

Investigate Computer or Internet Use

Look on the internet for signs a spouse is cheating.

You might buy a keylogger. Never let them know you installed it. They may not even communicate with their other lover on the computer though. If your SO uses the computer a lot though this one is good and produces evidence you can even print out. They may be at work when they use their email account but once they log on from home even once you have their screen name and password and can check their account anytime. It takes about five minutes to install and cost me about $40. You see everything. Web page screenshots, every key typed, every website visited.

Look at Credit Card Statements

Look for receipts or charges on a credit card for dinner or lunch for two, or hotels.

Semen Detection Kits

If you are a male and don't regularly have sex with your SO you can buy checkmate which is a home semen detection kit cost about 45 dollars and takes 5-10 minutes. You can tell what those white stains in you girlfriend's underwear are. (Women, don't use it on your man's underwear. I can tell you cause I am a man and might have a little semen in my drawer and I don't cheat.)

Surprise them at Work

Bring them lunch at work unexpectedly and be friendly to all his/her co-workers giving them muffins and pasteries. This does a lot of things. It lets the other people know your SO is taken and in a relationship. The people in the office will know he or she is taken and will be watching them. There is always someone in the office who has been cheated on in the past ,or unsuccessfully hit on your SO, or plain just doesn't like them and will try and expose them. Your SO will have to try to keep it under wraps more and use the cell phone and other means giving a paper trail. Having a friend in his office is good, but beware of them also.

Look Inside

Look at the reason why you are suspicious. Are you doing something wrong yourself. Guilt is a powerful thing. My buddy's girlfriend who was cheating on him was always suspicious and accusing him and since he was my roommate, I know for a fact he wasn't cheating on her. Then he got suspicious because she was always accusing him and he caught her. Now she isn't his girlfriend and he has sex with her and lots of other women and he has the right as far as I'm concerned. He was faithful to her and didn't take the numerous opportunities thrown at him. Now he just has fun.

Are you just plain unhappy with your relationship and want out? Maybe you don't want to be the bad guy and break it off and want a good reason too other than you are just bored with them or don't love them after all the things they have done for you. Maybe you already have your eyes on someone else and desire them even though you haven't cheated. Be completely honest with yourself and what you want and the true reason you are suspicious.

More Signs That Your Spouse May Be Cheating

  • Sudden increase in time away from home
  • Decreased sexual interest with you
  • Unfaithful / Cheating spouse is often distracted and day dreaming
  • Unfaithful / Cheating husband or wife is often “unavailable” while at work
  • Unfaithful / Cheating spouse attends new functions outside of work or not wants to go alone
  • Cell phone calls from you are not returned in timely fashion
  • unfaithful / Cheating spouse leaves house or goes to other rooms to talk on the telephone
  • Unfaithful / Cheating spouse uses computer alone and secretly
  • Unfaithful / Cheating spouse asks about your schedule more often than usual
  • Mileage on car is high yet he / she reports only short distance errands
  • Clothes smell of perfume or cologne
  • Unfaithful / Cheating spouse gets his / her laundry done independently
  • Unexplained payments on bank statements
  • Cheating spouse has more cash on hand without accountability
  • Cell phone bills contain calls with long duration
  • Unfaithful / Cheating spouse now has a phone card but never used one before
  • Unfaithful / Cheating wife or husband has unexplained receipts in wallet or purse
  • Unfaithful / Cheating spouse has suspicious phone voice-mail messages
  • Unfaithful / Cheating spouse has suspicious cell phone numbers stored or dialed
  • Internet web browser history list (this is a record of web sites visited) contains unusual sites
  • Unfaithful / Cheating spouse begins to use new or free e-mail account
  • Unfaithful / Cheating spouse is suddenly deleting e-mail messages

 

The high tech services available through Mate Check Private Investigations may explain or expose the reasons behind such behavior. For your own peace of mind, contact Mate Check P.I. to find out what's going on and why.

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